Hey, how are you reader ?  Hehehehe . Well i'm good as always . Going to face mid semester test this april. Wish me and you all good luck

Well , it turned to be a good activity to write about your concern.


My concern is , i've been cheated , lied to , fooled multiple times . And i wonder is it because i am too kind ? Am i a fool ?


Sometimes , people make me think. if you're too kind,  it means that you are a fool. It means that you let people know your weakness. It means that you let people take you for granted , and people will take advantages from your kindness.

I can say it because i've been treated that way. And it felt so bad . Every inch of  my soul is aching . Too bad , until my chest hurt so bad.

Beeing to kind is not good, i wonder if i become mean will it make me feel better . I want everybody that hurt me can feel the sameway.

But a friend of mine , said to me . That is not my fault to be treated that way , and i'm not a fool either. He said , there is something wrong with
that person , and he is the one to blame. And he said " don't you ever think to become that person "

I think that .....
Forgive somebody that hurt you multiple times , is a bad things . Trust people that lied to you, is a mistake . Always believe that deep down in his heart , that he is a good person, is wrong . And believe that he will change,  is wasting your time.


But i did it anyway....
It hurt me so bad everysingle time
But it just even harder for me to stop believe in him

There's a say.....
Fool me once , shame on you . Fool me twice , shame on me!

Haha fool me multiple times , then you know the answer!

When he fool me , i felt that the shame is all on me. I felt so embrace how could i did this to my self.

But as the time fly by , i didn't feel that way anymore. I don't know why, i just don't regret any decision i've made . I don't regret that i follow my heart.

And now i know,  is not wrong to forgive someone.
It took a lot of courage to forgive someone that hurt you.
The truth is , it makes everything a lot easier .
It is the key that can make me forget all the pain that i've felt.
It set you free !
Trust me it's easier to forget if you forgive.

And you have to forgive your self too!
You don't have to feel ashamed , you dont have to feel small or not worth it. You no longer have to blame your self for everything that happend .
You don't have to be ashamed beeing a kind person.


And , believe that someone can change is not a mistake .

But people not going to change just because you love them or be kind to them .

People will change because they want to , because their own will . It comes from inside

Believe in something like that is not a crime .
But, let people hurt you over and over again is not right. Sometimes you have to let go any negativity in order to receive the goodness . Saying no , that doesn't mean that you are mean.

I finally realized this after a quite sometimes , no matter how hard my friends yell at me , i just wont stop , i've cried hundred times. But i did it again, cause i'm a stubborn girl.

So the decision of letting go is come from inside me.
Remember girl , someone that say that love you , will respect you . And true love doesn't cheat , hurt or lie.

World are so cruel these day , and i don't think being kind is bad. Don't hurt people because you don't feel good about yourself.

Sending all good vibe to the world 💓💓💓 , love y'all

Let me know bout your experience , and your opinion , don't forget to comment !